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1) try to modify their aggressive thoughts;2) try to be nice to their spouse even if they do not always deserve it;3) get satisfaction from helping others;4) tend to apologize after being assertive;5) try to look on the bright side of things;6) do something creative when facing marital difficulties;7) make plans of action and follow them when facing marital difficulties; and, finally,8) make a lot of effort to make things work.
1) hope a miracle will happen or go on as if nothing had happened when facing marital difficulties;2) try to forget marital difficulties;3) think that people, such as the spouse, are either good or bad;4) act impulsively when something is bothering them;5) get aggressive when they feel hurt; and, finally,6) try to hide their feelings.